Why woman has to cooperate all the time

Why woman has responsibilities to do all house hold work , take care of children's, listening to everyone and if needs she has to do job as well.
Peoples teach their son's that a women will handle their home and his mom dad , they do not need to worry about anything after marriage, they forgot that a daughter is also a living soul who is supposed to be a star of her mom and dad eyes  .
I have not seen my father in this life and doesn't have chance to meet b'coz he was gone before i got my senses, my mom was all in one for me like mom, dad, brother, sister. 
i always supposed my dad in all things if he exist then what will happen and dreamed about my husband he should be like this, like that etc etc. i never think my life without my mom but she expired when i was 26. it was the most horrible thing in my life which never supposed, after her i got Orphan and then i understand no one is there for you if your family does not exist even after you are married, in your in-laws house always get remind that house is not your's, i just think always that where is my house now.  

Why a women gives whole life of her to design and maintain a home for others.
Why she cannot get respect like others, who decide work(lunch dinner breakfast cleaning children's manage home account, do job to share husband responsibilities) for women's , who decide so people all time advise these are women's work only .
it's my first blog to share my feelings, thanku for support